My sisters and I may keep our hearts closely guarded, however, once we let you in it's usually forever. By far my sister Amanda is the most affectionate and forthcoming with her feelings. On the other hand, Erica is the most reserved with her emotions, however, once she lets you in, she will be fiercely loyal and protective of you for life. I tend to fall somewhere in the median between my two sisters. At times, I can be very closed and standoffish and at other times I can be very loving and affectionate. Given all of the above information there is something all three of us have been guilty of in the past, that is, emotional overkill. Emotional overkill can best be defined as follows: a person becomes overly emotional and affectionate (because they like a new person so much) that it is interepreted by the receiving party as aggressive, overwhelming and down right alarming. It isn't that we are psychotic lovers, rather, we just become a tad bit too enthusiastic...when we like or love someone we express it with our entire beings (which sometimes achieves the very effect we were most trying to avoid). And though we sometimes put our emotions and our hearts on the line, the reward for the receiving person is unbridled passion (which has its own perks when harnessed and directed in the right manner). We may be emotional, sensitive, demanding, controlling and all consuming but we are also passionate, loving, sensual, and erotic.
"I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control, and at times hard to handle, but if you can't halndle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't derserve me at my best." -Marilyn Monroe
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