Non-commital is common in many instances of dating. Further breaking down the word it means to not commit. This an interesting phenomena that more people are choosing in today's society. Without commitment there are no expectations-no obligations. This is a lucrative and enticing manner in which to live. Many people undertake this route in order to keep things light and fluffy. With that said, consider me in. I did this frequently in college and most recently in seeing someone (note: isn't saying you're seeing each other clashing with the term non-commital? Maybe but for lack of a better word I don't know what else to call it). Non-commital leaves options open. Some may choose to be monogamous only towards sex while others say anything goes. My suggestion is this-talk about it but only briefly. Discuss the parameters (i.e. is going on a date with someone else okay if you've only agreed to not sleep with other people)? I'd say it's fair game so long as you don't sleep with him or her that asked you out unless of course you've agreed that sex is okay). Regardless, people today are busy, stressed, and at times overwhelmed. The absolute last thing they need is to be further committed to something else. If it's meant to be more then it will develop further and if not, you will have enjoyed a thrilling ride.
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