X's & O's

Can exes be friends? I think the answer depends on the ex and the circumstances. With a specific ex in mind I'd like to think it's possible. I adore his company. He is such a joy to be around. There's a lot to be said when two people connect on a multitude of levels. Let's be honest and admit that great conversations are hard to come by especially in this day and age of technology. I crave conversations which engage and challenge me. I welcome conversations which demand my attention and challenges the way I observe and process my feelings and beliefs. If two people genuinely enjoy each other's company then where lies the harm in that? If approached with honesty and transparency I think many friendships can transcend over time regardless of previous relationship status. It entails respect and the ability to step back if the friendship threatens harm to others. Case in point-I imagine many women may feel threatened by a new partner's friendship with an ex. Personally it's a non issue for me so long as I am presented with the facts up front.  Just because a romantic relationship didn't work out doesn't mean that a friendship can't thrive in its place.  I realize this isn't always possible (nor would I want a lasting friendship with most of my exes).  But there is one I would like to have a healthy friendship with. I hope he feels the same.