1. Must be faithful. Fidelity is non-negotiable.
2. Must be compassionate and kind.
3. Must love (or at least like) animals. There is something pathologically wrong with those who don't.
4. Must be affectionate and playful.
5. Must be passionate-be it politics, opinions, sex, etc.-all of it is important.
6. Must be intelligent and educated. Bonus if he wears eye glasses for reading.
7. Must want exclusivity (he would not be able to fathom sharing me).
8. Must be respectful towards me, my son, and others in general.
9. Must love to laugh. Humor is incredibly sexy.
10. Must love sex (with only me of course).
11. Must be financially secure.
12. Must be sober (if alcoholic) or drink minimally (if non-alcoholic). No recreational drug use.
13. Must be confident and secure with himself.
14. Must be emotionally available and mature.
15. Must communicate well.
16. Must be open minded and tolerant towards others, spirituality, new ideas, etc.
17. Must adore (not worship) me.
18. Must have a good relationship with his family.
19. Must be hardworking (i.e. does not leave when the going gets tough).
20. Must be honest.
21. Must have good manners.
22. Must have principles and a code of honor.
23. Preferably does not have or want to have children of his own. Adult independent children are okay.
24. Must have goals and dreams.
25. Must be assertive.
26. Must be thoughtful and considerate.
27. Must be insightful and knows his own mind.
28. Must be loyal and honorable.
29. Must be health conscious (preferably a non-smoker. Trust me, I know and I'm working hard to quit).
30. Must be employed. Bonus if he loves his job.
31. Must be protective.
32. Must be dependable and reliable.
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