In the City....

There are many days I can strongly relate to the character Carrie Bradshaw. The most obvious characteristic is our penchant for writing (only she was fortunately paid to do it whereas thus far, I am not). Carrie and her three fabulous friends were forever getting into relationship fiasco's (well I guess technically "Samantha" was simply crawling into every one's beds). How in this day and age, can an educated, attractive, decent female have such a complicated time finding a decent, attractive male? One who isn't commitment shy or sprinting to get to the alter. Seriously (in my wise mother's opinion) if you have never been married or in a serious adult relationship by the time you are in your mid thirties (and no high school and college do not count) then something is flawed (AKA run- do not attempt to fix/change it). Where are all of "normal", non-married, successful, men? Perhaps my friend Mia is correct- I am simply at an age when most people are getting married for the first time....according to her, give it 5-7 years and they will all be getting divorced and suddenly available (and beating down my door :)